Are you allowed to look?

 

Is it correct for several people to come to ones house and view a female for marriage, e.g. in-laws, big brother, sister etc?

It is permissible for the boy only, to see the girl he intends to marry on the condition that his intentions are clear and for marriage purposes only. The females from the boy’s side may also meet the girl. However, brother, father or any other male relatives of the boy who are non-mahram to see the girl are not allowed to look at the girl.

(Riyadhul Janah V.6, no2, page 16, Question 7)